My coming out journey
By an anonymous PDA LGBT+ Network member
I’m not ready to let people outside the PDA LGBT+ Network know that I’m bisexual. I find it inspiring for people who have come out and have the confidence to be their true selves. Maybe one day in my journey I will too.
The topic hasn’t really come up talking with friends and family so I couldn’t let it naturally slide into conversation. I don’t have the confidence to bring the topic up myself or ‘announce’ it. I don’t want to be loud about it, but it would be nice to know that people are accepting of me.
I’ve found comfort in being a member of the PDA LGBT+ Network and knowing that it’s a safe space. The network has made me feel accepted and I told people my sexual orientation as everyone else was doing so during introductions. It’s reassuring to be part of this group and know that I have people to talk to for advice and guidance.
I’m not as active as other members of the group but I read conversations and support the networks’ work and views. As much as I want to join in discussions, I sometimes don’t know how to because I don’t want to say the wrong thing.
I’ve learned that there may be other people who feel similarly and are hesitant to open up or maybe still unsure of themselves. The PDA LGBT+ Network is there for people going through all stages of their journey as well as allies. It’s so reassuring to have this group and not be alone. I feel much better knowing that I have people to turn to for support, who would understand. |